I am not new to linux, I just dont use it nearly as much as windows. I have it all themed out to be very similar to mac os. I even have kvantum theme manager to back up the theme and add some much needed background color/texture/transparency. I have my renderer set for opengl 3.1.

I am trying to get konsole to fit in with this theme, but I can't get konsole to change themes. I have tried different themes, and then remembered trying to change the font in order to get the theme working. But I dont have any idea what I could be missing. Here's a screenshot of konsole as well as a screenshot of my kde version and stuff.
I am using the latest version of kde neon.

https://imgur.com/gallery/XU4TpE6

Konsole's transparency settings are defined by those color schemes. You can edit an existing one to select the transparency level you desire or download another using the "Get New..." button. (there have been a few added to the KDE Store which were designed to match some look-and-feel.

Or is the problem that Konsole's color scheme isn't changing at all? When I'm in the appearance settings for the current profile (which can also be accessed by right-clicking on the Konsole background and selecting Edit Current Profile), any time I hover the mouse over different color schemes the Konsole window will automatically updated to preview that color scheme.

I have also same issues.